Thursday, December 30, 2010

De Holiday, De Vacation


For the Christmas celebration, i flew over to China with Hubby and family + relatives
A total of 17 people all consist of families by ourselves seems hot enough to stand the hard cold weather ;)

We were told that there will be snowing *unfortunately we have no fate with the snow scene* =(
By the time we reach 1 city, the other city is snowing.. *awwwww.. damn sad kay?!*

Anyway, there are all sorts of emotion involve during the 8days 7Nights trip..
But it was too long to be written in here =p
All i could say is, though there are things that are important in lifes, being happy should be the foremost one


Do you know how scary it was to be standing on a see-through glass up on the mid-air?
Many time i have brave myself to step out a foot but my body juz pull back the leg..
and of coz, it takes time for me to out-brave myself to really experience it
For the record, i have finally made it!! XD


Being on schedule is the hardest thing for all of us to do..
Lack of sleep, lots of walking - taking pictures - posing =p - eats up alot of energy
Not to mention have to wear tons of cloth to keep us warm inside
*makes me feels like a fat fat lady walking around*



Along this trip, i should say there are surprises too
I was staying in the same hotel as HK actor -

Joe Ma Tak Zhong and


okok,.. currently busy uploading more pictures on FB..
Do stop by once awhile ok? =)

Happy New Year!!!~~

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

MIA - soon =)

will be heading off to China till next week..

so, MIA status for me =)

Monday, December 20, 2010

为了那一口气

Between right and wrong, where will u prefer to stand?
Being right at the wrong time? Being wrong at the right time?
Hardly we can be in a place where being right in the right time..

So why is that??

For me, just my 2 cents, it's because each of our thinking is different..
You may think you are right, while others think you are wrong..
You may make the best debate ever in protesting "you are right" as conclusion, but still the others think you are wrong..
And when you win over something, where by the others admit they are wrong, are you in the "right" position??

Arguement happens as it's a form of communication..
But beware that words VS words may sometimes kills one souls..
These type of kills is deep enough to make an eternity wound..
One which no one could ever see clearly when it's coming until it's all too late..

Very true in times, all wants to be the winner in an arguement because by winning, it can shows how "right" you are..
But in a heated arguement, whereby the 2 (or more), throws words (often hurts one) at each others face, who will be the one who listen and absorb all into deep thinking?
In this case, is the winner the one who have the last word at the end? Or the one who says sorry 1st? Or the one who just walks away hoping everything will be alright the next minute? Or the one who cries in one corner thinking these will all be over the next morning?



为了一口气,每个人都想赢
因为没有人会觉得输了才是真正的赢家
可是就是因为这种想法会让人家不喜欢你

有时候,我们会对自己说,“是他们不明白我”
哪,你有没有问过他们不明白你是因为什么呢?

有时候要做赢家不一定是要“赢”
先认输也不一定是个输家。

要说“对不起”不是很难,
难的是要别人原谅你。

要说“我赢了”不是很难,
难的是要别人同意你真的是赢了。

为了一口气,就可能会让你失去了一个亲人,一个朋友,你会觉得值得吗?

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

♥ 13 months of dating, 4th marriage monthiversary ♥

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and the time still counting on =)

♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥



Monday, December 13, 2010

Fraser Hill

Randomly, we just decided to have a 1 day trip to Fraser Hill, Pahang..
However, what's planned to be a day trip ended up to be 1 night stay due to all felt dizzy :S

The famous Fraser Clock XD



Can feel cold *according to the stated temp, lowest is 16 degree*
But it's not as cold as how i felt when i was at Genting the night b4 this day! =D

Friday, December 10, 2010

生命

Today, as usual, on my computer at office and browsing tru all the news..
Shockingly, horrible news appear:-

NO! NO! NO!

A teen ended up his life just because he broke up with his girl
Yes, it sending out messges that the guy in indeed deeply in love with her until he could let go his life, but not letting it go this way!

JAmmed his mind with all those negative thoughts, he jumped of a building, losing massive of blood, and there he goes..

However, to me, this is an act of selfish..
He didn't appreciate life that is given to him perfectly by his parent..
He didn't repay all the hardship and love his parent had given to him unconditionly,
He chooses to repay them with blood, tears, and miserable life ahead..

Anyhow, what's done is done..
The present situation now had become a history..
A lesson that we should all learn,
Open up with somebody *just any1* if you are feeling down..
Dun be like the picture above, SUICIDE is NOT the only way out

R.I.P

Thursday, December 9, 2010

美丽的一天

Ever been to a place where u felt there's love around with stress free?
Seems like it's been awhile u stop using ur brain to think much of too much stuff?

RELAX LERRRR XD

LOL.. went to Kuala Selangor *it's been awhile* with my family and Hubby
Purposely juz for the sake of eating FISH! XD
Sitting down, looking outside while waiting for the food to come seems like going on a vacation =)


And then, after the meal, i found my long lost fren!
*taDaaa~*
Very long time haven't pamper myself wit these type of candy *yumm yumm*


The very next day, it's Ah Yi's *Hubby side* ROM day..
Simple yet heart warming day for all..
We had joy and laughter all the way ;)



May God of Love Bless both of you in every way and every path you both walk till eternity
*lurve lurve*

Monday, December 6, 2010

December

Here comes the end of the year..
another year have blissfully passed..
Can u feel any Christmas feel yet? XD


I started out the month with variety of sick
Cough, Flu, Fever, Headache, Stomachache, muscle pain..
And worst of all, i have rashes(according to the doctor)
I have it all over my shoulder and half of the neck, so i had to cover it as below:-





Thankfully it doesn't look awkward.. =)

Anyway, i will be heading to Shanghai for the Christmas celebration with Hubby and family..
The 1st time ever goes really far away =D



SO, god bless me to have recover in a speed way..
I dun wanna cough all the way to Shanghai and then guilty-ly harm any1.. *finger cross*

Tuesday, November 30, 2010

It's only words

Technically, it's juz another sentence to me from an irrelevant person..
Whether it's subjected to me or im being perasan, IT'S STILL HURT! okay?



Who do u think u are to lay a word on me?

Monday, November 22, 2010

Friday, November 19, 2010

彩虹

After work on yesterday, the sky started to look so dark and grey,
Just like a ribut taufan gonna happen..
Just when about to reach Taman Cannought, hubby and i saw rainbow..
And the rainbow is at close range XD



I dun remember when is the last time i saw a rainbow..
But certainly not at this close range =)

Thursday, November 18, 2010

道

After hearing much stuff bout Tao Buffet, finally get to go and taste it XD





As buffet, i persoanlly felt that there's not much choices to take on the spot
Except food in Menu which i din't get to see/order from it =)

Monday, November 15, 2010

1st year dating anniversary * 3rd month marriage anniversary

I remember how i met him years ago..
We were both stranger to each other..
No eye contact, no verbal conversation, only in the mind knowing the presence of each other..

the major obstacle at that time to him was - im in a relationship

Only days after im back to single life, he contacted me and that's where we start..
Msn -> Phone -> Yam Cha session -> the journey begins..

We do talk a lil bout the past, of how he/me develope the "like" to "love" towards me/him..
To my surprise, we had it at the same time!

14/11/2009 - the day our hand are held together
14/08/2010 - the day we legally becomes Mr. and Mrs.
and so, we get to celebrate each anniversary with each month's Valentine! XD

I Love You,
The Man In My Life,
Charles Lai










CharrrrrrLieeeeeeee~~~ LOL!

Thursday, November 11, 2010

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

stuff stuff and stuff VIA online

Browsing tru those web page, it's tempting!
not to mention viewing at those beautiful pics and affordable price ;)

However, there are risk too..
biggest risk is that you are being cheated *paid but din get stock*
or the stock comes out not as per pics =(

So, insist on COD or only purchase when you really really REALLY sure the seller is for real =D

For me, i do buy stuff online.. Contact lens the most, and now begin with clothing..
I too have my heart attack moments =p

Monday, November 8, 2010

The Stuff

Recently i found out a habit..

that is to shop @ Lowyat.net

Seems like can do alot of window shopping there =p
However there's also 1 that disturb me - afraid of being cheated money =(

Friday, October 29, 2010

=)

It's been awhile since i last post..
There are pictures that i could post along but unfortunately, im juz blogging at office..
A month working in this company, i feel great =D
Not only it's because i could work near to my husband, but also the environment..

Preciously i need to take up some time for me to get used to the working environment..
But here, i'm fast ;)

Even though there are mistakes i've done, or have to "eat die cat" *if u know wat i mean*,
it's all past and im looking forward for the future..

*finger cross*

Monday, October 25, 2010

The Pain, The Ache

title says it all =(

Thursday, October 14, 2010

...

Today, is not a good day to start =(

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

The price of Priceless

Emotions, is what made human, Human =)
Equally, all of us have emotion and some may largely consumed by it..

When you heard sad stories, will you sad?
When you knew a happy ending, are you joyful enough?
Most of all, when there's pain, do you feel the wound inflicted in your heart?

Newspapers headlines always (or most of the time) shows negative side of a story..
Perhaps it's because only scary or horror or sad stories are the ones who can deeply touch us within and leave it marks.

The 2nd time i ever felt so much worry is when he showed me his wound..
Physically, he's injured, but mentally im in pain..
I beg for him to see doctor but he refuse as he claim it'll be OK in next few days..
When the words kept spilling of from my mouth, i can feel the tears rushing out, but i held up alot of obstacle for it to roll down my cheek..

It's hard, as the feeling of you wanna cry but you can't..
Seeing him in pain when he told me "it hurts" does hurts me ALOT..

Fortunately, he's really OK now..
and next time, plz be careful =)

Thursday, October 7, 2010

Du's Day fall on Tuesday

Yet it's another year older for the 1 babi i knew for 17 yrs!





Dudu's Birthday..
A nickname that i have called for so many years, and with a blink of eyes, she turned 17! XD
Just look at how much she have grew *or i have shrunk* =p





Us, as family, just went for simply yet FULL-TILL-BURST dinner at some nearby restaurant..
Went for a walk @ The 19 usj mall > head back for Blueberry cake > dessert @ KTZ





Though this post is a lil belated, here goes:~~




Happy Birthday to You~
Happy Birthday to You~
Happy Birthday to Dudu~~~~
Happy Birthday to You~

Thursday, September 30, 2010

Blur

I dunno why, somehow i felt like im lacking something..
The delay to blog makes me feels like i have nothing to say..
It's not that im too sad or over happy to blog about anything..
It's just ----- none -----


Does this means im using less of my brain?
Not active enough in thinking?
Hmm.. everything seems to turn very fast..
I may cry all of sudden, emo out of nothing, but i do laugh when there's only little things happen..


This post is to show how blur i am at times..
Most importantly, do not regret in anything..


Human have feelings, and feelings can varies..
There's none to be expected to have no feelings at all..
Also, it's impossible to expect one to only stays on positive..


Being negative have its advantages too..
One, for example, negative thoughts sometimes help us to stay alert..
So you see, why can't negative thoughts is a positive way to help us grow?




Get wat i mean? =p

Monday, September 27, 2010

English

Words, can encourage you as well as crushes you..

1 word can contains a lot of meaning
Using in different sentences, the word can have variety of meaning..


Perhaps it's because of this, human tends to confuse themselves and putting them into a complicated situations..
As the level of the society improves, human does not take it simple but to push them into complicated situations..
What's more than difficult to naked-ly see those you concern always get the wrong meaning and thinking to cut it off is the only solution =(


My english is not perfect..
I do have my flaw as well..
I do not expect some to understand me perfectly,
but the least is to understand wat im trying to voice out..

Friday, September 24, 2010

第一次的。。。

Happy Mooncake Festival!!
For the 1st time there are so much families celebrate at the same time, same location..

After marriage, both of my families celebrated at Rock Garden..
1st off with BBQ, and then playing candles/lantern, followed by a walk at Thean Hou Temple, lastly back to Hung Ming Tang =p










中秋節快樂

Saturday, September 18, 2010

Avillion

Being a princess, i believe, is every girls' dream..
Ever since i was young, i used to imagine if my bed could ever be like a princess bed..
Honestly, when i arrive on my honeymoon trip, the bedroom was amazing!

It's not far away from where i stay, but it's the meaning that's count for me..
"Honeymoon after marriage - regardless where it is as long as there's only both of us"







LOVE

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

New ones Old ones

So fast, the day has past..
Day of the biggest day of my life is done..

Though it did not went on smoothly as i thought, but everything was okay =)



Thanks every1 who attended, Thanks all those who helped to make the event much better..
*tears of joy*

Tuesday, September 7, 2010

Wedding Bell

Need i say more?
The most happiest moment of any girls' life =)










Eventhough the process of getting the photoshoot done is tiring and sore,
I am definitely very satisfied with the outcome