Thursday, September 30, 2010

Blur

I dunno why, somehow i felt like im lacking something..
The delay to blog makes me feels like i have nothing to say..
It's not that im too sad or over happy to blog about anything..
It's just ----- none -----


Does this means im using less of my brain?
Not active enough in thinking?
Hmm.. everything seems to turn very fast..
I may cry all of sudden, emo out of nothing, but i do laugh when there's only little things happen..


This post is to show how blur i am at times..
Most importantly, do not regret in anything..


Human have feelings, and feelings can varies..
There's none to be expected to have no feelings at all..
Also, it's impossible to expect one to only stays on positive..


Being negative have its advantages too..
One, for example, negative thoughts sometimes help us to stay alert..
So you see, why can't negative thoughts is a positive way to help us grow?




Get wat i mean? =p

Monday, September 27, 2010

English

Words, can encourage you as well as crushes you..

1 word can contains a lot of meaning
Using in different sentences, the word can have variety of meaning..


Perhaps it's because of this, human tends to confuse themselves and putting them into a complicated situations..
As the level of the society improves, human does not take it simple but to push them into complicated situations..
What's more than difficult to naked-ly see those you concern always get the wrong meaning and thinking to cut it off is the only solution =(


My english is not perfect..
I do have my flaw as well..
I do not expect some to understand me perfectly,
but the least is to understand wat im trying to voice out..

Friday, September 24, 2010

第一次的。。。

Happy Mooncake Festival!!
For the 1st time there are so much families celebrate at the same time, same location..

After marriage, both of my families celebrated at Rock Garden..
1st off with BBQ, and then playing candles/lantern, followed by a walk at Thean Hou Temple, lastly back to Hung Ming Tang =p










中秋節快樂

Saturday, September 18, 2010

Avillion

Being a princess, i believe, is every girls' dream..
Ever since i was young, i used to imagine if my bed could ever be like a princess bed..
Honestly, when i arrive on my honeymoon trip, the bedroom was amazing!

It's not far away from where i stay, but it's the meaning that's count for me..
"Honeymoon after marriage - regardless where it is as long as there's only both of us"







LOVE

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

New ones Old ones

So fast, the day has past..
Day of the biggest day of my life is done..

Though it did not went on smoothly as i thought, but everything was okay =)



Thanks every1 who attended, Thanks all those who helped to make the event much better..
*tears of joy*

Tuesday, September 7, 2010

Wedding Bell

Need i say more?
The most happiest moment of any girls' life =)










Eventhough the process of getting the photoshoot done is tiring and sore,
I am definitely very satisfied with the outcome


Thursday, September 2, 2010

我想象中的幸福

Faces
It gives you alot of expression.
Sad, Happy, Joy, Excitement, Boring, etc etc
That's because we, as human, have feelings more than any creature in the world..
We have brains to control everything..
Emotion, Action, Verbal of words, Body Language..

Whether it is wrong or correct, we create our own history.
A second passed, our history gained a second..
A minute passed, our history gained a minute..
Some chose to forget, Some chose to remember.
As for me, I chose not to purposely forget neither to force to remember..
As the phrase goes.. "Let it be.."

Because of "Let it be", some of us often let go of our emotions..
Anger, especially, leaves a very deep scar in the mind and hearts of others..
Some may even remember you for life =)
Mostly it happen during arguement and you'll wonder where has the smile goes..

But as time pass by, we sometimes asked ourself what is happiness..
Where can we find it, or how will it comes..
And the answer all lies in within YOU
You choose to be happy, You choose to be sad,
You choose to be joy, You choose to be angry..
No one can have better control of you other than YOU

The same as LOVE, each individual have their own meaning of happiness..
Some felt joy when they can eat full, Some smile when they have enough cloth to wear..
For me, a lesser time for tears of pain gives plenty of time for tears of joy..

In my mind, i always thought that happiness is what you can gained from..
A less of sad gives you a gained of smile..
What about you? Are you smilling or crying?

If you does not feel how cries felt like, you wouldn't know how smile looks like..
If you do not feel how anger felt like, you wouldn't know how joy feels like..
This is the opposite attraction..
You will need to know how one feeling felt like to you in order to feel the opposite..

I once read a story about a couple who write letter when they argue..
Each time the letter starts with full of anger and esclamation mark..
However it is also always of each time, they will end up hugging and cuddling at the end of the day..
Do you know why?

When you wrote a letter, it takes you time to complete one..
The anger you felt will be release on pen and paper..
Also, when u read back, you'll know what you wrote and what's the main point for the arguement..
As it takes time, slowly slowly, you will calm down..
Pressure you put on pen and paper will slowly decrease..
And you'll know what harsh word or improper words you have wrote..
Because you could close your eyes without your hand.

Comparing to arguing verbally, your mind will transfer the data out from your mouth without stopping..
Thus, causing you to scream and shout..
And at the same time, you will not know what have you said or how hurt it have done for the person infront of you..
You could not delete it, could not rub it off, could not take it back..
Because you could NOT close your ears without your hand..

It is true that it is always better to talk face to face..
It is also true that not everything can be said out because you wanted to..
It is true that arguing and settle stuff on the spot is better..
It is also true that time should be given for those who needs to cool down..

Having to read for so long, do you realise what is happiness in you now?

Action comes from heart is sweet, Action comes from words is weak