Avoid, Ignore, Disappear
All these are easy to be done by one person
And all this person need to do is just shake head and then sit there and do nothing
But how many of us can do it? =_="
Many times we were heart broken due to the words that other people say about the one we care.
But what's hurt more is knowing the fact that those "words" are actually facts describing the person you cared but unable to defend..
And who is it to be said? Me? You? That person?
No one said that it is your responsibility in protecting or defending for the sake of others
It's is Ourself that feels it is the right things to do
However, whenever it is not appreciated or even being looked at other way, it is often the truth that the one who gives more, hurts more
Soon, none of us willing to Give any more, instead, just by solely Take
Those who barely know you will view you as a selfish person..
A person that do not know how to appreciate and give instead of receiving..
But those who truly understand would know how deeply hurt and tired you are trying to protect and defend all these times without being appreciated and thus, leads you to no where but to give up.. just give up..
Often, the easiest way to make ourself feel better is by pointing a finger out..
But bare in mind that with one finger pointed out by you, count the amount of finger pointing back at you