A man and his wife

When you're holding on tight to something very much, you're only suffocating yourself..
You may think that it's happiness you're chasing, but in actual fact, you are just lying to everyone..

To let go someone you love is never easy..
But never, NEVER let go someone you know they wanna stay.. because this is like killing them in a silent way..

I used to blind myself that you're still loving me.. but in actual fact, i'm just lying to myself.. 
You may say i am wrong, that what u did are all in purpose.. but if your purpose is to let my heart die, you've achieved what u wanted..

You may say you're still protecting me, but you're just protecting your face.. many still come to me and say "he tell me that you are the fault.."

In which i don't understand, the same as how i don't know you anymore..

I only know, a man should protect his family.. for it is him who build up the family with his wife..
Leaving the wife alone is not what a man should do, no matter how bad the situation are..
A wife can do many wrong things, say many wrong stuff.. 
But a man shouldn't ever let the wife know or see how is he being happy with another woman..

No one know how a wife feel when she saw what she saw..
Because all, and really all of the human always said, woman should close an eye for what happen..

I do not think this is the right way, because only one side not able to maintain the whole family.. 
If a man foolishly thinks leaving a family is good, then this man doesn't know what good really is..

No one should blame this man, for there are many factor that contribute to the whole situation..
But often, a wife would only wish for her man to see the whole situation in clearer way..